Nonetheless, your interpretation of dejanira and nessus is intriguing. 3. I write the truth not to placate people but because the truth is the only thing that heals. vertex conjunct moon and ascendant in scorpio can make it dark too? Aww Fluffy Ive never seen the Descendant explained so clearly or succinctly before. Astrology 101 Astrophilosophy 1.8K subscribers Subscribe 119 3K views 1 year ago Eros and Venus in. Lots of good aspects so thats why the Nessus Dejanira confuses me. Not all people with a prominent Dejanira are victims I disagree.I think they will be until they can truly overcome it with God. It wasn't until he began to withhold sex from me that I finally crumbled. Thats why its so weird bc it is a very good longterm relationship. However, Moon/Pluto in conjunction does not have to turn bad. Juno aspecting the South Node simply means that the pair was married (in some way) in a past life, or had a longterm marriage-like relationship. With the Lilith conjunct sun, the Sun person is seduced by the other Lilith person. Priapus is likewise called a "minor rustic God" or even "an oversexed gardening God." It is desire, it is passion and love. I do charts for the people who want them. A later relationship was abusive (a psychopath) His Nessus square my Sun Thank you a bunch for being so sweet Free~ I do agree that Ami is quite insightful, however I would like to chime in and say that I do not make every aspect positive I make every aspect neutral because the stars and planets are not going to tell you something is bad or make something bad. Do these asteroids have to be conjunct planets or square each other to be dangerous? It is not good to have a base level view on what will happen with one isolated aspect. There was some sort of karma created, whether the relationship was painful or whether one person abandoned it. I just never have, not that it is not good. This would be once in a lifetime kind of intense and tender. Deja conj the DSC may make you look for wounded bird types. I also have moon trine neptune, venus conjunction chiron snd more aspects to do with empathy. They play out to have a certain pattern to the relationship. But interested to see how things unfold. Next, I have uncovered that in my Draconic Dejanira is 1 degree conjunct my natal Scorpio Moon. Im not accepting you scaring people into running from possible happy, fulfilling relationships over one aspect that none of us even know how it can manifest in millions of ways. Because of where my Moon is at 2 56 Scorpio conjunct Pluto at 4 36 Scorpio in the 8th house the men around my age (Im 35);tend to have their Pluto conjunct my Moon/Pluto In my current relationship my boyfriend has Mars/Pluto conjunct my Moon/Pluto. One person is kind of riding the other one in this. They made my day, Jeanie. Thank you, Amiann. The puzzle pieces are coming together for me.. finally. lol. His touch is all at once sexual, creative and spiritual. Now, we come to things that could really make the relationship dark. I have this kinky fantasy specifically for him putting a really big needle into me as part of a medical procedure but this isnt my kink or fetish. What does this conjunction mean in a synastry? Are they married, Lo. Sun person helps Lilith person recognize their subconscious gifts and strengths. and should I post the picture of the chart (I usually get it from astro.com)? Im 30 with a mother that is 32 years older than myself and have never experienced any abuse, and Ive been alive and around my mother long enough to experience it. His Eros is on her Descendant and her Eros makes a square to his Sun and conjuncts his Vertex. Thats like saying everyone with their own natal mars square pluto aspect makes them destined to be molested. Do you see what I mean. The exception would be the person who overcame it through God. This is not to say it would be better or even easier. Unlike Juno/Saturn aspects, Juno in aspect with the South Node does not necessarily indicate that marriage in this life will be a force. His makes two major squares to her inner planets. Good afternoon, thank you for this article It brings you back to the time when you were a child and truly powerless. My sun and deja are on his nn. we also have Eros (his) conjunct my Lilith and Pluto (mine) conjunct his Venus. Eros is a spicy little asteroid who generates excitement in relationship astrology. The 12th house is all about past life astrology, so the planets can always be applied to past lives as well as the current life. That is my commitment to my readers. The issue is that me disagreeing with you being fatalistic (because what you say is not what always happens, not even 60% of the time because I have nessus/dejanira aspects with most people that are close to me, and I have never been abused or attacked in any of those relationships) does not mean that Im not accepting the truth. She is deeply alluring and irresistible. xx, haha you are so cute, I like you and you write very simple and easy to understand. xxx, This may make Nessus and what it means i.e abuse, something that is a deep subject with you and on one which you contemplate. You example above is only if a woman has Dejanira conjunct a mans ASC, Sun, Moon, Mercury, Mars, Venus or NN, you will be his victim. Any feedback on the roles being reversed? So the theory doesnt check out. If it feels too, too good to be true, it often is. I have not seen it fail in all of my chart work. This is not dark sexual, per se. What about this aspects? I have my nessus conjunct with my true node. It can ruin possible healthy relationships. under what theme of the forum? I wonder what do you think it would happen when nessus conjuncts nessus in synastry. You do not have to do their chart. I get into this discussion a lot with people. My guess is that it would be an obsessive relationship where both would try to hurt each other? I know this is not my website, so I cannot change how you write and it is not my business to dictate how you write. However, if the time is right, for sure, I would trust the chart over a personal account. M. What are the exact Sun/pluto aspects Maria? There is always a risk with Eros when he falls on a personal planet of point, and meeting Lilith is the greatest of them. My DEJA in home 6 in opposition to your NESUS in my house 12 to 10 degrees from my ascendant. . Mars pluto aspects Do you think I need to worry about the Nessus/BML conjunction or about abusing the poor wounded birds I keep looking for? Eros Synastry Aspects: The asteroid, Eros, represents erotic love, sex, passion and intimacy. Youll have to use your judgement here. He may have little sympathy for her weakness. What conjuncts your Aura? I have only had this fantasy with him along with begging him and many many other fantasies. Posts: 376From: Western Massachusetts, USRegistered: May 2009. Is there a good part to Nessus/deja conjunct? However, this person would have to play it out before he overcame it. Ive only been studying astrology casually for 5 years, so even though I know the basic interpretation of those planets in contact, Id still love to hear it from a pro love your blog! Would you liken moon/pluto dynamics to an 8th house moon overlay? This will be HOT. PROSERPINA conjunct EROS (055') IP: Logged. Please, keep giving your opinion. It can be done but it is rare that someone reaches that level of spiritual mastery. Thank you for your words. In other words, if a mans Nessus conjuncts your ASC, he will abuse you, in my opinion. How do we honor Lilith in our lives? 1) What does it mean to have dejanira 13 in conjuction with my ascendant 12? I would say no, but I am not the last word in anything. Set his time to 12 midnight but TELL me, so I know before I look! I appreciate your thoughts on these aspects but I am concerned when any astrologer singles out specific aspects and makes sweeping judgements about charts and how the energies in that chart will be made manifest. Deja conj ASC may make for victimization as you fo through life, I am not able to do more. Great questions. Isis Conjunct the Vertex. It is the passion of lovers and the pure, primal love of a mother for her baby. Moon conjunct Lilith EXACT Moon conjunct Destinn EXACT Venus square Mars EXACT 3 degrees is wide but this is one of the hardest aspects in the whole chart, so please be vigilant, as I know you will be! Maybe also Mars/Uranus? They often indicate a desire to sexually conquer/arouse one another. xx. Things dont come out until marriage, sometimes. Ascendant opposite ascendant (1st house on the 7th house overlay). Hi! With any Chiron aspect to the other persons Juno, there was a wound created through marriage in a past life. I just found out my abusers Moon is 1 degree conjunct my Dejanira. Dark sexual relationship synastry top 5 | Signing. To make it simple for those of you who are on the same path, Ive rounded up the top 5 placements that indicate a past life marriage. What does that mean? PS I checked the synastry of a man I know for sure was abused by his own father physically and emotionally, throughout his childhood, and this mans Nessus is conjunct his fathers Sun. I always seem to have the opinion that these people are somewhat evil yet gullible and innocent and therefore they deserve to be abused. And my dejanira conjunct his Venus. it would be such a fortunate relationship with his Jupiter conjunct my ASC in synastry, and Venus-Jupiter exact composite conjunction right on his natal Sun! Venus conj Chirondoes love seem to bring pain? When these relationships end, it is not pretty. Lilith Synastry Sun and Lilith conjunct in the synastry chart When Sun person's Sun and Lilith person's Lilith combine, each person awakens the deep desire for individuality and creativity in each other. It doesnt always make for the easiest of relationships, because both people come into the marriage with the weights of the past life issues, but it definitely has staying power. Yes, it would. In the conjunction, the planets are next to each other( or on top of each other in the exact conjunction). Connections between the Vertex and the lunar nodes are also indicators of past life in synastry. I was wondering.. Are Sun/Mars (double whammy) and Venus/Mars (double whammy) dark aspects in synastry? I have moon conjunct neptune and venus in 12th house. Our composite moon is at 26 Virgo and pluto at 0 libra. It is disrespect to Astrology which I love and respect. I will come back and answer when I have time to really look at the details. Thank you, Do you know what these aspects could mean? Yes, this is all very true but the charts exist outside of time, too. If you want to end it, be upfront and be kind. For more context, Nessus/BML dont aspect anything else except a grand trine with Mercury/MC and Jupiter. Since Aries is ruled by Mars, there's a . As you know, or can find from my directory, Eros and Psyche are my favorite asteroids. Eros is also prominent in their synastry. Double whammy of Mars-Uranus in our synastry chart. My venus is conjunct someone's eros right now. If that does not float your boat, feel free not to read. What I've read about Lilith makes it seem to me that she's sort of like the Feminine's Pluto with lots of primal sexual urges thrown in, so I'm sure she rooted herself comfortably into your already heavily Plutonic relationships. It will not heal anyone to tell them that they are wrong when they say that their relationship is healthy and happy even though they have an aspect that you think is destined to be unhealthy. Hardly. Would the aspects to the venus offset the negativity that the Dejanira implies? I know this came off a bit more forward, but only because I want to make it clear that one persons feelings are not fact. How we respond to this synastry contact has a lot to do with our own relationship to power and sexuality. The Saturn person may kind of ride the back of the Mars person. Can my Fortuna have some healing effect? Is this something that reliably and consistently is reflected in a variety of different charts? Eros and Venus in a synastry chart! This is another clear-cut past life astrology marriage aspect, although it isnt as heavy. What about Nessus conjunct Dejanira in synastry and there is no abuse whatsoever, what would that mean? Things DO offset things but one must look at everything to see a final answer which is my goal when doing charts.I am not trying to sell myself here, just trying to show that your question is too deep for a quick answer, my Friend. This would take a whole chart reading. Thanks :), The wonderful thing about this aspect, especially with the conjunction is that love is brought into the lives of both, even if . Check out our 40+ page relationship astrology eBook! In order to post comments, please make sure JavaScript and Cookies are enabled, and reload the page. I generally cannot stand them, and their tendency to be arogant and conceited towards anyone who doesnt think the way they do does come across as downright abusive to me. I found your site a short time ago and learned a lot, very descriptive in the analysis, I love it! How will these aspects play out? 2) I just looked for the child asteroid and it is on 28 Capricorn, conjuct with my venus 1 Aquarius. The year started with powerful and forward thinking energy that will assist in elevating us both spiritually and subconsciously. Lilith desires sacred sex above all things. I think her NN is right on his 7th house axis for one. YOU are the most important person to me. Both of them are loaded with sexual power, so their interaction is often explosive. Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com 2000 His dejanira is conjunct with my sun. I sense Saggi. Notify me of follow-up comments by email. There are millions of possible outcomes, and none should be claimed as the truth. Pick your top two questions and I will try to help, my Friend! Hi It is valued! It sounds really bad I guess, but this person has given me so much positivity and encouragement and I feel has set me on a positive path. The flip side is that when it ends( and it usually does) you could go to jail for homicide. Many people say they have overcome things but I watch their actions and see they are lying. This relationship can be really passionate, fiery, and exciting. I know my life, and what manifests in it. I dont want people to get the wrong idea and then get scared over a small aspect. its more like the astrology helps me to fill in the pictures. There is attraction based on dark forces like rage, pain and abuse. Isis is extreme devotion to the partner in the bravest, most selfless way possible. It is just the North Node, after all, not a personal planet. We are mesmerized, enchanted, and even obsessed with this person. Eros isnt making any connections to either Dejanira or Nessus though. I do Astrology the way that I would want to learn it. It needs to be 3 degrees, tops, so no worries there! I don't need anything from you, except to serve you. What would that mean? However, if you want me to help you to find Jesus, that is why I am here. . It takes me several hours so I could not do it here. My ex has Scorpio Pluto conjunct my scorpio moon, and I have Sagittarius pluto conjunct his sagittarius moon. I only didnt like that its being portrayed as complete truth that will always occur, when its definitely not the case. It's been suggested that an understanding of someone's natal Eros gives you the keys to unlock their erotic desires. It always starts this way. For teaching purposes, one must break things down, so it may seem like it is contrary but it is really not, imo, Sandy. Synastry When a person's natal moon forms a conjunction with someone's Eros, or vice versa, this can be a very sexualbut very intenserelationship. My first husband was abusive His Nessus conjunct my Descendant I have Dejanira in Pisces in the 4H. Also, our vertexes are conjunct in the same degree. And my pluto trine his sun and venus..xxx, Mars sq Pluto can be violence and/or violent/strong passions. Thank you F for being here and for taking the time to comment.What do you mean exactly? Please, keep me posted though but, yes, please, be careful, Love! 8. They may not be able to see what you are up to and you could use this for your gain. That is why it is so powerful. They have transcended Nessus conj Dejanira, which is a new situation for me to see. Well, maybe, but dont most abusers have a history of childhood abuse themselves? The fear can totally destroy someone over something that they read as if its fact. You lose about 25% but still have about 75%. When she contacts Eros in another, the answer to that question is found in the heart of a powerfully erotic relationship. Grace dear You both feel admiration for each other. As for MY natal chart I also have mars and Saturn conjunct in Scorpio. Eros represents what turns us on. Ami, no one can describe astrology better than you. When Eros touches the Sun, the energy of both the Sun and Eros awaken between . That would be my guess. It does indicate that both partners knew each other in a past life, but other romantic aspects are needed in the chart to create an energy strong enough for a marriage. Eros/Pluto/Lilith together makes for one powerful combination. This is a general rule, my Friend. Your email address will not be published. -Eros conjunct their personal planets ( Sun,Moon,Venus, Mars etc.). In fact, it is the opposite. Our mars are square (aquarius:leo) also. Nessus is the abusers asteroid. Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a. my mars is there too though, trining his Scorpio pluto 0.25 we have physical heat but plenty of fighting. Children create their future adult personalities by learning from the adults around them and their interactions, so it makes sense, sadly. There`s also lot of growth and sweetness and nothing that amounts to abuse. Just from reading this, I think it looks very good but I really need to see the wheel as it is easier. I admire your wisdom. Again, telling people to get out of or stay out of relationships with an aspect that you in particular think will cause them harm is not healing in any aspect of the word. Ami, hello. We enter the month of February, with lust, love and passion. I know how important moon moon aspects are to you, Venus pluto aspects If you do this, Astrology will serve its purpose, which is to warn and alert people to possible problems and even dangers. What about nessus exactly conjunct BML in synastry the man is nessus (9h), Wow Is there a super attraction that feels so strong that it will blow you off your feet? I often am able to get away in time, and at other times I can get away only to a certain degree. Oh dear, I am soooooo freaked out!!!!!!! Please please do Nessus conjunct Lilith in synastry?? would you please shed some light as you see fit? 1) What would it mean when my nessus conjuncts his nessus? My Dejanira is in 5 Sag, like his North Node. I mean, a persons life is complicated. What significance would you place on someones Juno conjunct my vertex, south node as well as very-widely conjunct my sun (same sign). The Moon person feels comforted by the Sun person's energy and the Sun person feels like they can be vulnerable with the Moon person. in the 12th house, you might be safe in assuming that there was a marriage or long-term relationship in a past life. We are not discussing potential long-term compatibility between the sexes, not the love match-rather, signs of initial sexual attraction and knee-jerk reactions between two people.
